Sunday, 8 April 2018

Simple and Intentional Living

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I believe in simple and intentional living.

Many times I find myself in complex situations that are man-made. It’s stressing and annoying to think how in most cases with the imagination that we want to be serious we always end up complicating our lives. We get into a rat-race because we want to portray an image of serious, sophisticated life. Simple but intentional living, on the other hand, is more rewarding. Just being simple is not good enough. You may disregard some crucial issues that might hit back on you. But being simple with intentionality goes a long way in giving us a fulfilling and significant life.
An intentional life can’t be lived without continuous self-examination. We need to continually examine our lives, be intentional how we want to move from point A to B and do it the simplest way we can.

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Life can be very demanding and with the pressure to be like others, to fit in, to count for something, we drag along things that we really don’t need in our lives. We rarely ask ourselves what do we really want, what are we all about, what’s really important to us. What do we really want to be and do embracing our own uniqueness and diversity?
God intends for us that we be simple and live simple lives. He further expects us to be intentional. After creating Adam, he asked him to be fruitful, multiply, replenish the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over everything - Simple but intentional.

In our desire to really feel that we are important and deserving, we have done more harm, than good to ourselves. What if we just cared about what God cares about. What if we went back to what really God wanted us to do and be?
We are called upon to do justice, love, mercy and walk humbly with God. To me this is simple. Unfortunately, due to our egoistic tendencies and the pressure we put ourselves through, we miss out on enjoying this.
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It’s amazing how people who have learned to trust have managed to live simple lives. Trust is the key to reducing on all the complications we mostly find ourselves in. The more you are trustworthy and you learn to trust others the simpler and intentional your life is. I’m a firm believer in trust. I have been accused of easily trusting people. I have been disappointed by people. But I still believe, my life is what is it is because I have learned how to slowly trust people who God brings my way. It’s never easy and it’s a journey am willing to take. This trust is either to God, family, friends, colleagues etc. If you fully trust God to do what he says he will, your life will be simple, and the same applies to others around you. If you don’t trust, you will live a more complicated life as you will always be suspicious of everything including yourself.
Trust is never developed overnight. It requires being intentional and time. You have to risk it. You have to keep at it, give it all without reservation and you will be amazed how people respond if you show them trust. Who do you trust most around you? How does that interaction with the person you trust always go? On a scale of 1 to 10, where will you rate it with regard to simplicity?
What is the one thing you know you really trust yourself at? How easy is it when it comes to engaging in it? Most of us are stuck in complication or sophistication because we don't trust ourselves. We don't believe in ourselves and what we can do. We don't even believe in God which is the greatest and the most important work we are called upon to do. To believe in the one he sent. That makes life simple and intentional.

If this resonates with you, think how to make your life simple and intentional. Start now… Then look for a small community of friends who you can do this together with… Being accountable to a few and practicing with a few. It’s about building a community of friends to share each other’s journey of life.  You have to be deeply committed to each other and desire to see each other grow in this journey. You have to create a support, encouragement and accountability platform for each other. The community has to be a small as possible so that there is active engagement by all involved.

Find a community around you and see if these conversations make sense to you…




By Gabriel Odhiambo Achayo

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