Friday, 1 November 2019

Good Vs. Bad






I believe deep inside every human being lies some good.
We are God's creation. God's creation is marvelous. The joke goes that some of us are fearfully made than wonderfully. But the truth is, we are God's masterpiece. The best of his creation. In all of us, God put in something good. Something beautiful that, if harnessed well, can lead to better humanity. 
Unfortunately, due to the pressures and demands of this world, the good in us may never be seen or portrayed. All that we exhibit is the bad in us. When we continue to feed the bad in us, it grows into a huge monster, and the good is slowly overpowered or starved. It doesn't mean it's gone. It's just been given a backseat and silenced. Depending on which one we feed in us, we could either be the worst, toxic person or the most amazing person that people will ever experience. Daily, we start by making a choice on who we want to feed, who we want to exhibit. The challenge we go through in feeding the good or the bad defines who we are and who we become.

It's said we make our habits and our habits make us. We pick what to do in a situation. If we continuously do that, it becomes a habit, and before we realize, we are known in that way. The guy who comes late or the generous one. “Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.” Stephen Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

Our thoughts are very key. Whatever is true, whatever is honourable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. If you dwell on bad thoughts, you will yield bad fruits. You can't focus on bad thoughts and yield the opposite. You are known by your fruits. Some of us are good at countering our thought patterns. We intentionally tell ourselves what to think by sieving the thoughts that come to us. This is very important. Imagine if everyone walked with a screenshot of what they are thinking all around them, you would be shocked at those around you. But we have to train our minds on what to dwell on. It's said you can't stop a bird from flying over your head, but you can stop the bird from building a nest over your head. There is the battle that we have to fight so that we can bear good fruits. So the good in us can be experienced.

There are a leader and a follower in each of us. The leader knows what you need to do to make your move to the next level in your life. The follower, on the other hand, has some ideas. Assume you need to lose weight, the leader in you has a clear plan. The follower will want a few more days to start the plan; maybe next year or a few more ice cream treat won't hurt etc. But until you empower the leader in you to take charge, then you may be at this for as long as you keep talking about it.

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We, therefore, need to watch out who we empower. We need to be careful who we pay much attention to. What are we sowing every day? The concept of Garbage In Garbage Out, GIGO, is so real. If you choose to be free, you then become a source of freedom to others. If you decide to liberate yourself and focus on the good in you, you become a liberator to others.

While it's always very easy to feed the bad in us, to invest in the good, you need a little more than the usual effort. You need to go the extra mile. You will need to be very intentional in why and how you do it.

Find a few friends and talk about this.

 


Thursday, 24 October 2019

Difference, Destiny




I believe our difference is our destiny.
This article has been inspired by a session at the Global Leadership Summit 2019. In this session, Devon Franklin talks of how our difference is our destiny. The minute we start wanting to compromise on our uniqueness and be like everyone else or fit in, we lose out on our destiny. We are designed uniquely from everyone else around us. So we have to seek to discover that difference in us so we can work towards our destiny. There is a temptation to want to be like a particular role model or successful person. This is not advisable as it will rob you of your destiny. The greatest battle we have to face is in overcoming this temptation.
To overcome this temptation, I believe every so often you need to examine or evaluate your life and either start, restart or refocus, continue, clarify, etc. Some people do so by asking the question about what to start doing, what to keep doing, and what to stop doing. This could help you depending on what you are dealing with. I invite you to do this. 

Sometimes we get moving and not even sure how we are doing on the journey unless we take time to evaluate. In any given journey, there are three important times; when we start, when we finish, and when we evaluate. An evaluation like servicing a car gives you the capacity to keep you focused, going with motivation, encouragement, and enough energy to keep on the journey. It helps you to confront the question, "why?". This has got to do with your values, your uniqueness, and what’s important to you. It makes you clarify your bigger “Yes” so you say “No” to anything that doesn’t lead you to your destiny.
Occasionally we get opportunities to come our way. These opportunities might present themselves to us in a way that we can't let them go. We feel we have to take them, or else we will miss out. Most of us are victims of FOMO, Fear Of Missing Out. We don’t want to miss out. We would rather be where we don’t even feel like we need to or be with people who don’t value us because we don’t want to miss out. This, in many cases, might look harmless, but slowly, we start diverting our efforts, resources, time, etc. to something that we don't even believe in. We start climbing a ladder just to realize it's on the wrong wall. We create a habit of always wanting to be like everyone else. The habit could be harmless, but as they say, we make out habits, then our habits make us.

I wonder when was the last time you chose to be different. To be seen as the one who is not riding along. Sometimes you may even be rejected because they or you don’t fit in. I like this statement that rejection is someone's opinion about you. An opinion could vary from one person to another. In that case, you can't walk around projecting to everyone the effect of rejection. With clearly evaluating and examining your life, this could be the best decision ever. To choose to be different, no matter what. To overcome the pressure and bring your uniqueness. To be you, and do you. Not wanting to please everyone.
I call upon you to go discover your difference and pursue it. Own your difference. Don’t be caught up in trying to be like everyone else around you. You will get swallowed up. Don’t curtail your destiny because of an opportunity that looks good but doesn’t appreciate your difference. The journey of growing Africa Youth Leadership Forum has taught me that being unique pays in the long run. You need to have the bandwidth to keep you going as you build your own story. This bandwidth has to come from a point of true and genuine conviction on why you do what you do. It has to be internal.  If it's external, it might not be sustainable.
Find a few friends and talk about this.







Thursday, 10 October 2019

Experiences and Choices




I believe the joy of life is derived from a combination of the transformation we have experienced and a desire/passion for sharing and continuing with that transformation.
We are a sum total of all the choices we have made to date. These choices play a huge role in how we live our lives moving forward. Our journey in this life is marked by a process of change or transformation. This could be positive or negative. This process is instrumental in who we become and how we experience that which we face. The journey ahead of us is largely pegged on how we draw from our past experiences and how we employ that wisdom to move forward. Therein lies the joys of life and the great opportunities to be who God wants us to be.
Life has a way of throwing things our way. Some of those things we encounter might be what we want or want we don't want. Life in itself has a way of just bringing them to us.

As I write this article, I'm in an annual men's Gathering. This is a great time where a group of men who really want to follow Jesus in their lives and be of service to self, family, teams, organization, and community come together to share their varied experiences on this journey. A wonderful time. What I can’t stop thinking about is the idea that instead of spending my time wishing for favourable experiences, I’d rather spend my time working on how I will face/experience whatever life brings my way. This has nothing to do with the external factors but everything to do with my inner being. My inner self. My attitude, my paradigm, my internal compass. How would I respond if everything I hold so dear comes down crumbling? If I woke up one morning and AYLF is no more. Right now, my mind can't comprehend how that would happen because it has grown beyond a few individuals; it's a movement of people. But, think with me for a moment, how will this affect me. Will I have the courage to move on. Or what if I woke up and AYLF is all I ever dreamt it could be, how will that affect me. Will that change me? How will it change me?
We all have diverse experiences we go through. Short but tremendous experiences that shift our lives to greater magnitudes. Or could be just a minor shift. No matter the case, how have you prepared yourself to face the experience you go through. This is about the heart. It’s not about knowing what to do, but it's about living that.

I’m also caught up wondering how to make a choice on what I want to spend my time in. I find myself getting pulled aside all over to think more of how to balance my time between AYLF and everything else I would like to do and have the opportunity to do. I have been on this AYLF journey for almost 12 years now. A lot has happened. 
The essential thing ‘in heaven and earth' is... that there should be long obedience in the same direction; there thereby results, and has always resulted in the long run, something which has made life worth living" Nietzsche
As I reflect on the above quote, I look back to what I have done in AYLF, and it's been worth it. My life is worth living, and I don't need to get worried about how to face what life brings ahead of me. So far, I have lived a worthy life by the grace of God. I have had amazing experiences that God in His own mercies have allowed me to go through. I'm no longer the timid, shy boy from a small village in Siaya County who had a struggle with low self-esteem; still a battle, but, I’m more aware of it now than I was ten years ago. I still have my own challenges and confusions, but I'm more aware now than I was. I have so many people looking up to me. Those who trust me with their lives. My words are no longer just words, but they carry much weight. This is to me is God at work in my life. All I have to do is to remain faithful to Him, who gave me a reason to live my life the way he enabled me to.
As you read this, what has been your journey like? What are your experiences? How would you respond if the worst or the best happened to you? Would it change you? How would it change you?
Find a few friends and talk about this.








Saturday, 21 September 2019

Moral leadership: A tool for society transformation!



Introduction
I am a former student leader. A large chunk of my experience in leadership has been for service and volunteering. In my years as a bachelors’ student, I volunteered to serve students at Strathmore University. This is a University founded on strong principles of Ethics, Morality and Faith. I will, therefore, write this article based on my experiences in service as a voluntary leader within and outside Strathmore University for the period that I was in leadership within the past 4 years. I will also relate my experiences to my knowledge and divide the article into 4 subsections characterizing moral leadership which include:
1.      Culture
2.      Character and service
3.      Relationship between Power, Courage and Humility
4.      Altruism
Culture
This is far the most important section of the article. Culture is the core of a society. It is the basis of influence and persuasion. Culture is used to convince decisions in most circumstances; at home, work or in politics. Culture has always been and still is the reference foundation for persuasion. It, therefore, follows that it is the core of leadership in society too.
My past experiences have taught me that good things do not happen because of ‘good’ people; nor do bad things happen because of ‘bad’ people. Everything happens because of systems: The social systems we have grown from our culture. These systems are built by people. We build these systems ourselves or we adopt to them over time. As a fact, we show it in our decisions, choices, beliefs, history and relationships. More than often, the culture is subscribed to by a large number if not all members of the community, as a result, forming a system that shapes members of the community. Through the system the society is controlled. In other words, culture gives birth to the system that runs you in your society. Therefore, it follows that a faulty system will often produce bad results even with the involvement of ‘good’ people: Similarly, an excellent system will produce good results even with the involvement of ‘bad’ people. A system, more than often, become too powerful than individual influence, except in exceptional cases.
A characteristic of human beings is the ability to adapt (Ashcroft, 2013). You adapt easily. You can create and adapt to systems that you create or have found created. In other words; the culture of your environment shapes the system in which you operate under; which little by little moulds your character. This is explained by the fact that human beings become what they consistently practice and believe in. What you believe in is often what you learn or what you have been taught. Your individual effort to integrate certain principles and habits deep into your nature is limited to your knowledge and experiences. This knowledge and experience are derived from your environment which informs your desires. This desire is highly influenced by your environment and what you acquire from it.
Inasmuch as who we are is shaped by what we do, what we do makes us who we are (Durant, 1991). Hitherto, what we do is informed by what we have learnt. This means that to make a new culture, you have to unlearn the old, learn the new and desire to adopt a new culture. Integrating new principles and habits will only be made easier by a new desire informed from new learnings and practising the very habits you desire. Unlearning and learning, desiring and being, doing and becoming are pairs in a perfect system of exchange that involves a process of shaping your character and your culture. You learn by unlearning and you become after desiring. What you do shapes who you are and who you are determines what you do; the starting point being who you are. I like to refer to this as practical philosophy; you only get it right the moment you begin to practice it; until then, it’s always complex. The above introduction will be a pointer guide to help us understand the soul of this unique kind of leadership- Moral Leadership.
In the current prevailing world-conception where individualism is glorified, selfishness is ‘rewarded’ and competition for profits is admirable, I may not be celebrated as an advocate for ethics, moral leadership, common good, self-sacrifice and justice. The pattern of behaviors that were once considered a big success; including in leadership, are the cause of unending predicaments the world is facing today (A.C.Kapur, 1997). For example, exploitation through colonialism nowadays referred to as neocolonialism, divide and rule, ethnic politics and manipulation of the masses for selfish gain. These are just but some few examples. However difficult it is for me to write about moral leadership and get an applause, I will take the risk to tread on that narrow path; for it is the little things done cumulatively that ultimately result to the big change we all look for.

Character and service
Majority of the problems that cripple societies in the world today are consequence of a fundamental failure in leadership. Corruption, war, poverty, hunger, climate change and environmental degradation are all manifestations of the failure. These problems arise when a leader lose the Agenda of service to others and instead shift their focus to the pursuit of selfish interest. On the contrary, you will discover that leadership by definition is centred on others; not oneself. A leader is one who influence, guides and shows the way by example to a clear intellectual vision greater than himself/herself. This means that when you enter leadership, the focus shifts from you to the people you lead; this is where Moral leadership begins.
Leadership without morality is superficial (Covey, 2008). It is merely a short lived influence that cannot outlive an individual. Morality is central to leadership because of the long lasting influence it has compared to personality which is normally short lived. This means that moral leadership goes beyond an individual’s mere charisma and rhetoric expressions. It sinks deep into the heart of a leaders’ authentic character, which is manifested by his/her behavior. On the face of it, charisma and rhetoric can only be used as a quick fix to cover for your social image and to protect your temporary social brand (Covey, 2008). Your personality appeal cannot withstand the test of character; only your character will do it for you. As a replacement for seeking the gratification of oneself, Moral leadership seeks to serve others and to develop their capacity to achieve greater results. It therefore approaches others with a sense of unconditional worth and value. A moral leader takes up the duty to help others pursue their own legitimate interest and goals, treating them as an end in themselves; not as a means to an end. In that sense, leadership compels the leader to bring out the best from his followers using his good example.

Power, Courage and humility
Character is the source of power in moral leadership (Covey, 2008). It is the moral authority that earns your influence. Moral leadership has to do with the conduct of leaders. It is concerned with the nature of a leaders’ behavior and their virtuousness. It is about the amount of courage they have shown in doing what is right over that which is easy. Far beyond seeking to be followed, Moral Leadership aims to achieve a high moral goal, anchored on principal values, hence characterized by a deep sense of ethics. In a decision making scenario for example, the choices a leader makes and how they respond in a particular circumstance is informed and directed by their ethics. It therefore begins from an individual’s moral transformation to the overall societal transformation, hence humility is such a key virtue. Rather than seeking self-interest, Moral leadership guides you to think beyond yourself by prompting moral fiber continuous improvement process. You will need to understand that you are a person in progress in order to accept the concept of continuous improvement. Moral leadership not only places you against a virtuous mirror where you learn and practice virtue until you begin to become a virtuous person but also builds in the courage and capacity to transmit those virtues to others using your influence as a leader. This whole process is gradual and not merely for self-benefit but for the purpose of achieving a greater goal than yourself. It is solely in preparation of service to others. You must be a humble person enough to accept it.

Altruism
Moral leadership gets you exposed to the universal moral culture which harmonize the fragmentation of values across different cultures in the world. Unlike Ethical egoism and Utilitarianism, moral leadership is founded on the virtue based, authentic, transformational leadership principles of altruism which show concern and interest for others. For example, a leader who struggles to be honest and transparent is not doing so for himself but for the sake of the common good of the people who follow after him. The same applies to a leader who practices humility, justice, truth, love, respect, self-sacrifice, compassion and philanthropy. The works of Mother Teresa who gave her life to help the poor is a perfect example of authentic transformational moral leadership. Rather than seeking to find what is right outside yourself for your benefit, Moral leadership is about an inner moral conviction of choosing to do what is right for the benefit of others, amidst all odds in the prevailing environment. It is the system that will call on you to take up hard moral decisions to disrupt an immoral system.

Conclusion
Therefore, Moral leadership doesn’t require a position. It rather requires self-awareness, a moral conviction, the courage to step up for what is right and committed humility to serve others. This rare combination can sometimes require you to do things that are unpopular yet moral. It might sometimes cost you more than you would have predicted. Moral leadership will test the extent to which you can sacrifice self-interest for the sake of common good (Community interest). However, it always proves to be worth the sacrifice. A good example of Moral leadership without position is civil activism for good governance or justice such as the works of Martin Luther King Jr, the practice of citizens sharing love and compassion to the less fortunate through charity activities in the society, volunteering in community projects and giving back to communities. Some of these moral leadership practices may be accompanied by risks while others may not, but they all have a cost that the leader must be willing to pay. A leader who does not consistently seek to do what is right cannot achieve good in the society which he leads. If there are no values inside a leader, then there will be deficiency of the values in the community that follows the leader. So I say, little by little, a bird builds its nest; chose what is right, do what is moral and advocate for the truth!

References

A.C.Kapur. (1997). Principles of Political Science. S Chand Publishing.
Ashcroft, R. (Director). (2013). The four horsemen [Motion Picture].
Covey, S. (2008). 7 Habits of highly effective people. Success Magazine.
Durant, W. (1991). The Story of Philosohy. New York: Pocket Books.



Monday, 9 September 2019

Planning Flexibly



I believe life should be lived with a strict Flexible plan.
It's good to plan every minute of your life. Know what next and why, and follow through with it. It's is said that failing to plan is planning to fail. In a happy world, this is 100% correct. Unfortunately, in real life, where we have to deal with people, and we have family and children involved, you need an attitude of flexibility. Your family will always need you sometime when you are right in the middle of your plan. If you value family as I do, when family comes calling, you can't delegate this. You can delegate other areas of your life but not when it comes to your most important part of your life; family.
Planning Flexibly or rather planning with an attitude of flexibility implies that everyone, including yourself, is fully aware of what you are trying to achieve, but also that the path is not curved on stone. Especially if it comes to dealing with third parties. You need to know your non-negotiables and know your negotiables. The non-negotiables should be what is inside of you, that which you have influence over. It could be your faith, your belief, your absolute truth about life, your absolute “WHY” in life. It should be about your core value systems. As much as your value system could be influenced over time by what you experience, but the core value system should be your guardrail. That which you hold on to dearly and is your filter to every negotiable you come across.

Your negotiables are more about the “HOW.” The structures, the resources, the what, the people you meet in this life, money, things that are more out of your control. More of your circle of concern. You need to know that which concerns you and that which you can influence. Our frustration comes when we can’t separate the two. The negotiables and the non-negotiables.  So many times, we make negotiables, non-negotiables, and vice versa. 
Don't spend time chasing a right answer or a right path, but instead spend time defining how you are going to approach whatever path you choose. What values most define you. What questions do you want to pursue? What is seems right now, might change tomorrow. If you have been engaged in anything in life, I believe you appreciate this fact. I call this relative truth. It makes sense to you now, but when things change, it will not hold as true. It could be the right path now, but with exposure and more information coming your way, you may look at it differently and be quick to embrace another path that will hold for as long as you operate in the same paradigm/situation. Remember, this is your negotiable. You approach is what will be your non-negotiable. This has to be very clear to you because it's about your core value system; it's about what your life is all about.

I love this quote by Tim McGraw; We should all reassess what we think and believe constantly - in politics, in life, and in our thinking. Otherwise, we get too rigid.
The more you get exposed, the more you are able to realize that somethings will not last and as such, they form part of your life experience. You develop a flexible attitude to life. The danger sometimes might be if you lose out on yourself. Continuously reassessing your absolutes and relative truths, negotiables, and non-negotiables, your level of flexibility is very key. Becoming too rigid in this life is very expensive and frustrating.
So as you plan your life goals, desires, and objectives, take into account that things will always not work the way you want them to, but don't lose your focus. Adopt a flexible attitude and enjoy the experience as you learn from it.
If this resonates with you, go ahead to evaluate your non-negotiables and negotiables, your absolute and relative truth. Look for a small community of friends who you can do this together with. Being accountable to a few and practising with a few. It’s about building a community of friends to share each other’s journey of life with, as you plan flexibly.  You have to be deeply committed to each other and desire to see each other grow in this journey. You have to create a support, encouragement, and accountability platform for each other. The community has to be as small as possible so that there is active engagement by all involved.
Find a community around you and see if these conversations make sense to you.


Tuesday, 3 September 2019

Money and Relationship





I believe money should not break relationships.
Relationship and money in most cases are like oil and water. Some people have declared that they will never lend or borrow money to or from friends. I find this to be disturbing. I believe that it's actually from friends that when you need a quick bail, you can run to them. This, of course, has to be based on trust.
I have lost many friends because of money related issues. Either the feeling that they lack it or they have borrowed and failed to return or any other issues that make the interaction very tricky. This is unfortunate. I'm a firm believer that a problem that money can solve is not a problem. Now, depending on how you view this statement, you can argue it the whole day. There are real problems that money can’t solve. No matter how much you have.
The unfortunate scenario also is where our attitude, behaviour, and desire towards money has made us hurt the ones we care about. Your pursuit and search for more money leave a trail of destruction. This is very troubling. You end up losing all the money you worked so hard to acquire, trying to solve problems that money can't solve. This leaves you wasted. 

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I remember in September 2016; I had an encounter that came to mind today. I had a supplier who we had dealt with for over 5 years. This very day, I asked the supplier to extend me a line of credit so I can go ahead and do what I need to get done then we would settle it. The supplier refused completely and wasn’t even willing to listen to me. It made me feel like our 5-year interaction had meant nothing. I had to get another supplier who was willing and ready to help out. You can choose to argue this differently, but I believe that money should not mess up a productive relationship. I believe even if you are to refuse to extend credit for any reason, the way you communicate it should not lead to you losing a client you have had for 5 years.
Another scenario played itself in a different case. I recently had to stop going to a particular barber because I realized he was more interested in my money than me. He would look for an opportunity to make sure I leave as much money as possible with him. Again, this is not wrong, but if it's clearly evident that you are seeing me as your ATM and the more you can squeeze out of me the better for you, then I will be gone. He lost me as a client because I found somewhere that I could feel valued and appreciated for going there rather than for the money I’m bringing. Let money be treated for what it is, a means to an end. Many experiences have left me wondering whether I'm naïve or not. 

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I try to give a tip when I receive a good service. For me, service comes first. My relationship with you comes first. But if I realize that you are just out for my money, I will not be interested in your service. You offer excellent service; you open an opportunity for a more meaningful relationship that could lead to more money. You focus more on money; you may lose the relationship even before it starts.
Money is just a means to an end, acquire it but let it not acquire you. Don’t lose a relationship because of your appetite for money. You will not find meaning in this life if everything around you is about how much money you can get in every interaction you have.
This article is tricky because I know there is a school of thought which implies that without money you are done. Trust me; I have experienced a lot of things in my life that I couldn’t afford. They have come to me not because I had the money to buy them, but because of the depth of the relational trust that exists. Some of these relationships and trust have taken me years and sacrifice to build. Some of them are out of extended trust; a referral by a trusted party. Some of them turn out good others don’t. Whichever the case, I don’t know how to do it another way.
If this resonates with you, go ahead to evaluate your money and relationship paradigm. Look for a small community of friends who you can do this together with. Being accountable to a few and practising with a few. It’s about building a community of friends to share each other’s challenges in handling money and relationship issues.  You have to be deeply committed to each other and desire to see each other grow in this journey. You have to create a support, encouragement, and accountability platform for each other. The community has to be as small as possible so that there is active engagement by all involved.
Find a community around you and see if these conversations make sense to you.

By Gabriel Odhiambo Achayo


Thursday, 22 August 2019

How AYLF Prepares Student Leaders For Service.


A few weeks ago, an article titled “Are student leaders a reflection of our politicians?” captured the views of University students with respect to leadership in general. Majority of whom expressed their reservation when it came to both student leaders and national leaders. Rightfully so, the feeling across the Country has for a long time been that of despair. That the transformational leadership, the selfless servant leadership of the good old days, seem to be behind us.

That, leadership today is all about capturing power for the sole purpose of serving an individuals selfish interests. And that student leaders only focus on how they will impress politicians for handouts and other ‘goodies’ that might be in the offing. This is not far from the truth.

But this topic has taken me down memory lane. Inside Taifa Hall, one afternoon, where I was seated together with my first year classmates awaiting a lecture. All of a sudden, a group of senior students dressed in sharp suits would enter the hall - straight to the podium. It was campaign time! They would speak one after the other, and the one who was vying for the SONU chairman’s position would speak first. They were a team. And it so happened that this team ended up clinching majority of the elective seats that year. This team was headed by one DMK Kiogora, who then served as the SONU Chair – and is today serving as a Hon. Member in the County Assembly of Meru – representing Abogeta ward.

I never got a chance to interact with DMK during his term at the University, but I was able to interact with him later at a different forum. The AFRICA YOUTH LEADRSHIP FORUM (AYLF). On two occasions in my engagements with the AYLF, I’ve heard DMK narrate a story. Of how when he was at the helm of SONU, at a time when the Country was having the 2013 elections, he got two urgent calls that he considered important. One asking him to join in an ongoing political campaign in the Country that same day– definitely with all the ‘goodies’ that came with it. And the second call, from the Africa Youth Leadership Forum asking him to appear for an engagement. Now, unlike what we would consider to be the ‘norm’ with student leaders – rushing to engage with politicians – for the sake of handouts, goodies, networks, access to tenders among other self centered interests, DMK Kiogora chose to go the other way – and went straight ahead to attend the engagement with AYLF.
I know by now you might be asking yourself, what is this AYLF, that would make a SONU chair, shelve his Political ambitions just to go for an engagement with them!

The Africa Youth Leadership Forum (AYLF).

Anchored on servant leadership, AYLF engages both serving and former student leaders through trainings, mentorships, and building of sustainable friendships and communities. The vision is not only to transform the style of student leadership as it is perceived today, but to also prepare them for the leadership world that awaits them out there.

With programmes such as University Student Leaders Annual gathering – that brings student leaders from across 7 East and Central African Countries today, they get to share experiences, challenges as the AYLF imparts the necessary tools that allows them subscribe to the servant leadership model.

And to further encourage servant leadership in our Universities, the AYLF has the annual University Student Leaders Awards (USLA) – that recognizes and awards student leaders who are demonstrating service to their students. In this awards, students get to nominate a student leader from their University who is more of a servant, than a boss. AYLF would then shortlist a number and take them through trainings, while periodically conducting interviews so as to narrow down to the final winners for the USLA awards.

As a former student leader myself, this year I was privileged to sit in the final panel of judges who selected the best 4 servant student leaders for the USLA awards 2019. And it was encouraging to see how student leaders are today pushing on projects that serve both the students and communities, while AYLF pumping in the needed resources to continue creating the servant leaders in them.

The larger AYLF family today celebrates quite a number of National leaders, who were previously student leaders and passed through the hands of AYLF. From DMK Kiogora who is a Hon. Member of the County Assembly of Meru, to Martine Moshisho Martin who is the Deputy Governor of Kajiado County, and also Hon. John Kaguchia – Speaker of the County Assembly of Nyeri. Leaders who subscribe to service. And not just service, but as demonstrated by Jesus Christ in the Bible when he stated “For who is greater, the one who is at the table or the one who serves? Is it not the one who is at the table? But I am among you as one who serves”

Therefore, as much as there is despair out there about student leaders, and national leaders, there still remains hope.



Written By: Jude Thaddeus,
A former student leader and member of the AYLF family.

INNOVATION DRIVEN BY CAPITALISM

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